吃驚

有些事情會讓我吃驚!
吃驚得不知道要告訴哪一個...

原來人真的好善變，好脆弱。
很多東西都經不起考驗，都熬不過時間的洗禮。
特別是感情。

從我家中的例子、身邊朋友、同事、甚至教會的弟兄姊妹...
活生生的例子，讓我不否定我們能盛載的感情，真的太渺少! 但又需要太多的愛!
最可惜，我們都刻變時翻。
我們應該怎樣掌握愛與被愛?

有人說，因為愛有千百面，所以參透不了!
莎士比亞相信愛情，十四行詩第116首，很浪漫的：

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

愛不因短促的時日而改變，愛不斷延綿直至死亡邊緣。
時間並非愛情的簾刀。

雖然如此吃驚，我仍相信婚姻是真正兩顆真心的結合!